Is it normal to fall in love again and again.....and again?

By: Sharon Supriya

Falling in love for the second, third, fourth, fifth... and nth number of time is Hollywood style (Well! Bollywood is accepting the trend recently). Read to know all that confusion about true love with three different arenas of love life.

Search for Mr/ Miss Perfect

When I was in college I had few friends who were in and out of relationship every six months. I used to awe at the rate of speed they moved. Once when I asked Stella, (a good dancer ) the reason for leaving her ex boyfriend she promptly replied, "because he couldn't dance". Sounds strange!! Today's generation have lost the meaning of good relationship, commitment, and need for adjustment. They look in for the Mr/ Miss Perfect and bounce into every possible character just to return back with a deep hurt.

Loved- hurt- and loved again- and hurt again......

Let us move to the second situation where an individual falls in true committed love to realize that the other was a fraud. Sandy fell in love with a college beauty and broke after a year when he realised that she was dating him for her own benefits. After a gap of six months he fell in love again just to get a deeper heart break when the parents posed the barrier of different religions. Sandy after a year found the perfect gal who loves him like crazy and is of the same religion. But he will not dare to take any step, because he is scared of getting hurt again. There may be many in such a situation. Love can happen nth number of times to an individual who is constantly in search for the right and more love. If you belong to such a category loving many times is not a surprise.

True committed love

If that was Stella, and Sandy's story I have another true love snippet of my another friend Simren who has been in a relationship for past 7 years. Once when Simren had been into Inter Collegiate Competition she fell in love with this handsome dude, who kept eyeing her wherever she went. She was so engrossed with his style, the way he talked and even the way he ate. She started to move closer to know his name and all that state affairs.

She was successful to an extent, they shared the same dice that evening and then the coffee. Then the cool-in-style hunk came forward to drop her back home. Now the heroine realized that her still existing boyfriend would be there to do the same task. So, she gently apologized and said, "My Boyfriend will be here to pick me up". Though tempted she realized that there was somebody who is waiting for her. The next step of the 'true love girl' was to confess. She did confess after a week and the ' true love boy' didn't show any dispute but just said that it is the game of heart.

Falling in love may happen more than once even in a strong commitment, but it depends only on the individual how he/she would take the infatuation forward? Infatuation is not commitment, it is just a minute phase attraction that will not last for long. Love is a pure commitment for just one person for the whole life with whom you would love to share everything your decisions, goals, aims, body and every desire. All the people who were in love, are in love and searching for love determine what you want from a relationship if you do not want to get a hurt.